Helping you create a healthier family life from the inside out

Can you see what I see?

Summer has arrived and for parents that can either be a blessing (kids are in camp or summer school ALL day with no homework in sight) or a curse ("I'm bored", "I'm hungry", "Can we go to Disney...

Looking a Gift Itch in the Mouth

In the last three weeks, I've developed an allergic reaction to what, I don’t know. The reaction came in the form of dry, red, and puffy skin that started between my eyebrows, curved around my...


If you’re a guy, you may not relate to this entry, but it may save your marriage and every other female friendship you ever have. If you’re a woman and you’re over 40, you’ll “get” it. Others of you...
Crossed swords

Using Conflict to Strengthen Your Relationships

We can use conflict to batter one another. Or we can use it to sharpen ourselves and build deeper relationships with friends and family. The choice is ours.

How 16 Friends Lost 159 Pounds

We started on February 2, 2017 and by the time we finished on April 19th, our I Am S.T.R.O.N.G. Team had collectively lost a whole person—159 pounds. It was a life-changing experience for...

Parachutes, Pollyanna, and Jody Picoult

My husband is one of those people who can find something positive about gum stuck to the bottom of his shoe.On the other hand, I can give you a list of the negatives starting with the five tools in...

Time, Time and More Time

All right. You know I was already reluctant to get into this homeschooling thing. Hey, I got a rep to protect, ya know? The rep of a modern day, multi-tasking, professional working mother who...

How ‘Bout a Taste?

In today's electronic age, there's something more valuable than money. Time. With the variety of media bombarding us every minute of every day, you want to make the most use of your reading time....

My Under-the-Dash Driver

I've invited Big Brother into my car. Progressive Insurance has this device that you can install under your dashboard to monitor your driving. The selling point is that they'll give you a discount...

Shut Up and Paint Already

Have you ever had to sit and wait for somebody to just shut up? They talked on and on about their problems and why this and that wouldn’t work—and you knew exactly how to solve their problem. But...

Books by Kim Pullen

The Intimacy Manifesto (Non-Fiction)

Intimacy ≠ Sex. But even the most spiritually-minded equate them. Or we think intimacy is reserved for marriage. We couldn’t be more wrong!

Intimacy is so essential to all our meaningful relationships, we can’t have a healthy relationship without it.

It’s time to redefine intimacy and commit yourself to deep, meaningful relationships with God and a circle of safe others.

The Chasm Crosser (Fiction)

The greatest story ever told through fresh eyes—a mysterious bridge builder appears promising to span the great chasm, but his bold claims put him in opposition to the authorities.

A reluctant farmer and his wife must decide: is the man a self-deceived lunatic, a master con artist, or is the only one who can reunite the people of the valley to their king?

Water for the Wound (Poetry)

We all have a wound. In our humanity, we try to hide it, deny it, or disguise it. But when we are alone and the noise of the world has stilled, the relentless pain demands attention. It cries out for relief.

This is collection of poems calls you to lift your hands to the rain, lift your voice to the Son, and lift your heart to the one who provides Water for the Wound.

God Saves Marriages

Kim Pullen’s shares she and her husband’s victorious story over co-dependency and sexual sin.

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