Helping you create a healthier family life from the inside out

The Great Chicken-Egg Debate

Which came first, the chicken or the ed?Y’ caught me. I meant “egg”, of course.So which did come first? It’s a basic Philosophy 101 question, and one designed to stump people, to stop them in their...

The Never-Ending Process of Mourning

I was cleaning out a closet in my house when I pulled out a tub of crocheted items and felt a lump lodge in my throat. My father—who would have turned 70 this week but succumbed to pancreatic cancer...

The “Mundane” Things in Marriage Make or Break It

I could spit on every romance novel I read as a teenager. They deluded me into thinking that marriage was one, long romantic adventure. What a crock. I’m not down on marriage. I endured four...

Using Conflict to Strengthen Your Relationships

We can use conflict to batter one another. Or we can use it to sharpen ourselves and build deeper relationships with friends and family. The choice is ours.

The Pot and the Pigeonhole

Eureka! I’ve discovered it! The secret to all the complexities in the universe regarding male and female wiring. It’s quite simple really. The theory is called the Pot and the Pigeonhole. And it’s...

How ‘Bout a Taste?

In today's electronic age, there's something more valuable than money. Time. With the variety of media bombarding us every minute of every day, you want to make the most use of your reading time....

Let it Rain!

Florida is the Sunshine State. And we Floridians LOVE the sun. We love the warm temperatures ten months out of the year (sorry, you northerners but 50°F in January is considered freezing to us). We...

Looking a Gift Itch in the Mouth

In the last three weeks, I've developed an allergic reaction to what, I don’t know. The reaction came in the form of dry, red, and puffy skin that started between my eyebrows, curved around my...

Putrefied or Purified

My heart is a cesspool. I’ve tried to get rid of the odor with essential oils. I’ve tried to cover it with a nice chintz cover. I’ve tried spraying it with 409. I’ve tried to pretend that the brown...

Books by Kim Pullen

The Intimacy Manifesto (Non-Fiction)

Intimacy ≠ Sex. But even the most spiritually-minded equate them. Or we think intimacy is reserved for marriage. We couldn’t be more wrong!

Intimacy is so essential to all our meaningful relationships, we can’t have a healthy relationship without it.

It’s time to redefine intimacy and commit yourself to deep, meaningful relationships with God and a circle of safe others.

The Chasm Crosser (Fiction)

The greatest story ever told through fresh eyes—a mysterious bridge builder appears promising to span the great chasm, but his bold claims put him in opposition to the authorities.

A reluctant farmer and his wife must decide: is the man a self-deceived lunatic, a master con artist, or is the only one who can reunite the people of the valley to their king?

Water for the Wound (Poetry)

We all have a wound. In our humanity, we try to hide it, deny it, or disguise it. But when we are alone and the noise of the world has stilled, the relentless pain demands attention. It cries out for relief.

This is collection of poems calls you to lift your hands to the rain, lift your voice to the Son, and lift your heart to the one who provides Water for the Wound.

God Saves Marriages

Kim Pullen’s shares she and her husband’s victorious story over co-dependency and sexual sin.

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